Doyinsola Anuoluwapo, the Big Brother Naija reality star David, also known as Doyin, has urged women not to be entitled to their boyfriends’ money until they marry.
According to her, anything a man does for his partner in a non-marital relationship is an act of charity.
She highlighted that a man is not need to be responsible for his girlfriend until they marry.
Doyin remarked this in response to a female fan who sought her counsel after her lover deserted her for calling him “stingy.”
She shared a screenshot of the letter on her Instagram story and commented, “I don’t think he’s stingy because he doesn’t arbitrarily give you money. If you have a man who provides you what you ask for, you are fortunate to have a responsible man, but he does not owe you arbitrary money simply because you are his girlfriend. [sic]. “Until marriage, a man is not responsible for you. Whatever he does is out of generosity, but you should not feel entitled to his money.”
“Until a man has married you, he is not obligated to be responsible for you….whatever he does is out of the generosity of his heart but you should never feel entitled to his money.
“Don’t let the internet deceive you, it’s nice to have a man that is intentional with his generosity but it’s not your birth right. There is nothing genetically programmed in a man that makes it easier for him to make money than a woman.
“It’s not easy to make money, so no one wants to keep spending ‘randomly’. If you need random money, please get a job.”
